Support is one of the greatest gifts you can give to anyone living with AS or any chronic condition. My Girlfriend has been the most influential person and the most supportive person in my life. Throughout this blog I will be referring to her and the amazing support she has been for me. Recently, I posted a link to her blog discussing our diet, which is just one of many things she has done for me: adopting a gluten and dairy free diet. This is a picture of our yoga mats side-by-side, which was after an evening of stretching we did together– she has been so encouraging of me starting a regular stretching routine.
My girlfriend has also encouraged me to maintain a sleeping routine which has been incredibly beneficial. She has a great knowledge of medications, nutrition, and ‘going green’. Her blog focuses on our journey to become more green. For years I have wanted to cut down on the chemicals I expose my body to, and she has made that process so incredibly easy for me: she does all the research, and I reap the benefits of it! Reducing the chemicals I’m exposed to can only help to reduce the autoimmune! She has also attended a few of my Rheumatology appointments and been there to help encourage and support me through a variety of drug trials and sicknesses that I’ve encountered. She has seen me through my highs, and lows over the past 10 months. I cannot emphasise enough the incredible impact she has had in my life, and I would be where I am today without her.
My girlfriend believes in me and encourages me to look forward to things. Before we went to Costa Rica we had a number of conversations all starting with me feeling uneasy about doing a trekking tour with my health the way it was. She reassured me that she knew I could do it, and if for some reason I couldn’t, she was willing to rearrange the details of our trip to accommodate me. I felt so at ease, and so accepted. And, this past week she has been talking about rock climbing– something that is a great passion for her, and something I have expressed interest with. I told her I wanted to try, but the RA has made my wrist and ankle quite weak, and so I have put it off until I’m stronger. She responded that those things would just be issues I had to problem solve– like her having to problem solve her height, etc. See, she’s super supportive!
My family and friends have been a great support too! Everyone has been on-board with my modified diet, and is always asking about how I’m doing, and wanting to accommodate me wherever we go. At times this makes me uncomfortable, but I know they care about me and are just trying to look out for me. Also, earlier this year I sent out a message to family and friends to see if anyone would be interested in joining a team I created to do the Walk to Fight Arthritis in my local city. I had a great response from those who donated financially, and from those who came out to walk with me. This is our team:
I do not have everyone’s permission to post his/her image, so I was a bit creative. These are simply representations and fictitious. Any likeness or resemblance to any real persons, living or dead, is purely coincidental.
Together we raised close to $1500 CND for arthritis research and programs and did the 5km walk. I was happy to support the Arthritis Society because they provide many great, and free, workshops for those living with arthritis.
If you know anyone living with a chronic condition, your support is the greatest gift you can give to them.
Stay Loose!